tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9779736.post1563731299047798220..comments2023-10-25T20:46:55.457+05:30Comments on K I C K: He Chose to Rinse his Mouthwise donkeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02084116949920234832noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9779736.post-24434365344773322352009-11-05T02:49:45.619+05:302009-11-05T02:49:45.619+05:30deeps true its scary.. we can just do our best and...deeps true its scary.. we can just do our best and hope for best..wise donkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02084116949920234832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9779736.post-37189222997369911232009-11-03T02:47:00.410+05:302009-11-03T02:47:00.410+05:30It a scary world out there and we all have lessons...It a scary world out there and we all have lessons to be learned. I plan to talk about everything (the warnings included) to my child and any children I have. But don't know wether we'll be able to convey what we want to and thats even more scarier to me..Deepshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15773068733721886525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9779736.post-68671471633795936532009-11-02T09:33:07.942+05:302009-11-02T09:33:07.942+05:30on the freud part..
when it comes to abused childr...on the freud part..<br />when it comes to abused children sometimes feel confused over partly enjoying sex and feelings of guilt..(You are Special..)<br /><br />and parents worry about girls being abused,but don't prefer to think on those lines for boys..wise donkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02084116949920234832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9779736.post-81022117158042432782009-11-02T09:28:08.820+05:302009-11-02T09:28:08.820+05:30ketan,
perhaps you are ignoring the title of the p...ketan,<br />perhaps you are ignoring the title of the post. i think it would have been more than a hug.<br /><br />the hug is significant re the parents being uncomfortable re sex but not aggression (the fight which they watch with interest. similarly not being comfortable to discuss what happened now, with being comfortable to talk about someone kicking him at school).<br /><br />i find it suprising when parents will let their children watch violence on tv, but feel uncomfortable if it comes to sexual..(I am not saying kids should watch adult entertainment..)<br />just kids should be able to discuss their problems with their parents without taboo.<br /><br />re the um : i didn't want to go for a "thanks:)" since i felt it would be sort of exploiting..and didn't want to offend the person who complimented too..had to think for around 10 minutes to come up with an um.<br /><br />====<br />whenever i get time i tweek my template. when i decorate a house, i don't intend to abandon the house:D i am just being myself..i have started blogging after a break, so just moving things around..this is the first time, i am spending so much time in this blogsite..<br /><br />====<br />i was editing my blog description when the kid called so had to leave it at that..wise donkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02084116949920234832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9779736.post-21393523438684602052009-11-02T04:03:54.075+05:302009-11-02T04:03:54.075+05:30And you know sleeping pills (benzodiazepines, part...And you know sleeping pills (benzodiazepines, particularly) are very safe. Once my psychiatry teacher had said that <i>for someone to die of benzodiazepines, they should have a truck-load of them, and then the truck should pass over them!</i> ;)<br /><br />So, your blog's description doesn't make it any more attractive! ;) Maybe you should start talking of efficacy rather than safety! <b>That</b> would be the USP! :PKetanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9779736.post-42635200440675321192009-11-02T03:57:10.057+05:302009-11-02T03:57:10.057+05:30And the rate at which you're making modificati...And the rate at which you're making modifications in your blog, I'm afraid, you're showing signs of getting bored with it. Which must not end in your abandoning it altogether! :(Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9779736.post-92231945685137446792009-11-02T03:54:17.064+05:302009-11-02T03:54:17.064+05:30Hello WDM!
I liked the poem. I tried very hard, b...Hello WDM!<br /><br />I liked the poem. I tried very hard, but couldn't understand the following stanza properly:<br /><br /><i>You are Special and this is a Secret, he had been told<br />And what would his parents do, if<br />the truth he told?<br />It wasn't a stranger, but a<br />person, his parents knew,<br />Perhaps, this was something his<br />parents already knew.<br />Will they tell this was just<br />something he had to obey?<br />Or would they blame him for not<br />running away?</i><br /><br />Had someone hugged the child? Molested him? Or was it plain affection, and the child didn't distinguish it from the hug of the couple on the beach?<br /><br />If it is any of that, then WDM, I'm truly, truly extremely impressed!<br /><br />In one of my responses to Saimukundhan, I was trying to explain how Sigmund Freud also did not distinguish between the attraction that a child feels towards his mother and the sexual attraction felt by grown ups! But not sure, if I had been able to convey that properly. :)<br /><br />I'm afraid I might have misunderstood your poem.<br /><br />Have you gone through any of my poems? You'll find them under the button--'poetry' on my blog.<br /><br />TC.<br /><br />PS: Even the 'um' in your above response also makes me respect you more! I think I'm going mad!Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9779736.post-4345637201451849602009-10-28T13:03:57.406+05:302009-10-28T13:03:57.406+05:30um thanks..um thanks..wise donkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02084116949920234832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9779736.post-86857926586370054142009-10-28T11:18:03.359+05:302009-10-28T11:18:03.359+05:30cool, nice read.. really liked itcool, nice read.. really liked itMayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03259452145796716118noreply@blogger.com